Preface
Entering into an Erotic
Lifestyle is often filled with heightened anticipation, ambiguous
scenarios and unanswered questions. There’s never been a guide
to help you through this fulfilling and wonderful path to sexual
awareness. The Erotic Lifestyle has different meanings based
on whom you meet. From “BDSM” to “swinging” or
just having a voyeuristic nature, an Erotic Lifestyle is the
foundation for happiness and lifelong fulfillment.
Recently, we were entertaining friends and began to reminisce
about when we started into the Lifestyle. We shared stories,
told tales of wild encounters, laughed about our mistakes,
and shared the uncomfortable feelings we had when trying to
figure out how the Lifestyle worked. Although there have been
several national news programs and talk shows covering the
topic, none of them answered what seemed to be the endless
questions we once had.
With that
in mind, we began to ask our friends and people we met at
Lifestyle socials the questions they had and if they knew
where to go to find the answer. Some gave us blank stares,
others were as confused as we were, and some said, They are
going to have to find out by trial and error like we did!” Sounds
like a good reason for a book! Thus, here we are, writing our
first book and sharing our wonderful stories we have talked
about with our lifelong friends over the years. While we don’t
claim to have all the answers, we have tried to answer the
common thoughts you might have. We hope you enjoy reading and
we welcome your questions. Feel free to email us at editor@lemediagroup.com.
Happy reading and enjoy the Erotic Lifestyle to its fullest.
Jacqueline Dupont Michael Cumberland
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Northern Secrets has
secured permission to offer you this guide to the Erotic
Lifestyle. We enjoyed reading it, contributing and are excited
to share it with you, our new friends.
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Table of Contents
Chapter I Common Traits
Confidentially and Privacy
Security in your Relationship
Desire of Lifelong Friends
Nonjudgmental
Chapter II Finding Like-Minded People
What is the Difference Between Swinging,
Open Marriage and Polyamory?
Are you a Swinger or a Cheater?
Getting Ready to Meet Other People in the Lifestyle
How to Effectively and Safely Build your Online Profile
Single Women
Single Men
Where to Meet, Where not to Meet, How to Meet
Code Words
How to Proposition in Non-Swinger Scenarios
Type of Lifestyle Clubs
Chapter III Type of Lifestyle Participants
Just Curious
Soft Swap
Full Swap
Bi-Women
Open Marriage
Chapter IV The First Lifestyle Event
What to Wear
Common Rules
What Makes a Great Lifestyle Event
What to Expect
How to Say “No, Not Interested”
Hygiene
Excessive Drinking
The First Time in the Room
What if you Get Jealous?
If Something Does Not Feel Right
Know your Limitations
Etiquette in Sexual Play
Summary
Appendix A: Common Terms
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